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A Little Girls Question

(In order to learn English, since my English was horrible XD)

I’d capture a story about a little girl. I guessed her age were about three to four years at that time. Once she was looking upon the sky. A beautiful night sky with a lovely full moon and scattered stars. Then a thought cross of her mind, she found something to ask. Therefore, she decided to ask straightaway, without waiting any seconds to keep the question in her mind. Then she said, “Why moon always follow after me wherever I go?”

People who had listened to her question were laughing at her. They maybe think that she was so funny. Moon doesn’t follow anyone. Moon doesn’t even have any feet to walk. People kept laugh at her and didn’t realize that something might go wrong. Well, maybe there was nothing wrong. Neither the question, nor peoples who laugh at her. Maybe the question was very cute, so was her expression when she asked that. But the girl had grasped something that she shouldn’t even catch.

From that day, if she had any question to ask, she would think many… many times before she got the question came out her mind and transformed into words. Scare, shame, always come around her when she think she have to ask. She scared that the question might very fool so it would only bother the others. She would feel ashamed if her question was just the things that had been explained.

When she at the elementary school, she went with a car. She saw trees in a range formation. Some of them are in front of the others. She was watching it, and trying to understand that when she was moving with the car, the trees were doing the same thing in her sight. The frontage trees seemed leaving her faster than the back one. In her sight, she found that the back range trees following her before they actually going backward. She got the “aha” about her own question that she had asked many years ago. It should have been explained by the theory about time, velocity, and distance. Moon might didn’t following her that night, the distance between moon and her that made it seemed to move and go along her.

Therefore, she decided to find and answer her own question. She lived in her own mind. She often wonders about the answers that others would give for her questions. She has trying to figure out and answering her own questions so many years in her life. She made self-addressed questions. If someone asked, she would try to guessing and answering the question, even the question wasn’t for her.

Then she grew old. She still kept her question about “following moon”. She never lost her curiosity about many things yet still tried to answer her questions by herself. She learned so many things in her life, but so many questions that should have been asked just being threw by her. Time goes by and latter on, she found that she had wasted so many times because of her fatuity.

Nobody knows what would happen if peoples who listened her question didn’t laugh at her, neither she would. Nobody knows what would happen if the people answered her question appropriately. If they just pretended not to hear her question. If they just smiled at her and said, “You’ll find out why moon is chasing after you”. If they made a joke for her by saying, “Yeah… look… it is coming after you… watch out!! Oh no it is becoming bigger and bigger!! Be careful… it may fall into you!! Noooo… booom… kazoom!!!!”

Well for me, her story was inspiring. Our action, no matter how small it was, it could affect others. I believe that every action was neutral yet every reaction that made something become negative or positive. There was a space between every action and every reaction… something called selection. I’m hoping that I could give my best reaction for every action that came to me, especially when it related to children.

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  1. March 19, 2009 at 2:51 pm | #1

    bahasa inggris saya jelek…..

    klo bahasa inggris petra jelek saya ya horrible itu :P
    ah jangan terlalu merendah kk, kasihanilah awak yang lebih bodoh ini XD

  2. March 19, 2009 at 10:52 pm | #2

    Kisah yang menarik,.
    (seolah mengerti sepenuhnya),. :D

    ada apa ini ada apa ini,.

  3. Dhani
    March 19, 2009 at 11:12 pm | #3

    by reading this, i got a chill running down my spine.These things you’ve written were exactly the same question i had in mind many years ago….i never thought someone else think about it too……

    “they’re only kids..”

    i was kinda hate that phrase.it seemed like the kids didn’t have any rights to do anything seriously (including what so called “asking”).They always told me that kids suppose to learn this,learn that…learn everything….

    from who?

    with who?

    from those who always laughed at the kids?

    with the ones who always make fun of their questions?

    but one thing for sure,they-the kids-, DO LEARN that everything didn’t seem as serious as they look like and then started to judge that all of these were nothing but a big,funny,and SERIOUSLY UNSERIOUS crap!

    but you know, that is how GOD protects us…

    do you agree?

    wow I never thought that you also think about it. I agree with your first opinion, but I don’t think I agree with “that is how GOD protect us…” phrase. I think kids, could grow better if their environment nourish their curiosity :P

  4. March 20, 2009 at 5:28 am | #4

    assa.
    wuih, gw sering ngajarin sodara2 gw yg msh kecil utk bisa berani membela yg benar walau hrs berantem nantinya, bener gak tuh
    wass.

    wooogh, yang pasti kayaknya klo kamu intens ngajarin kayak gitu, mereka bakal kayak kamu :D

  5. March 21, 2009 at 6:32 pm | #5

    akhirnya setelah buka-buka kamus saya ngerti juga akhirnya….

    yah, memang itu butterfly effect namanya :D

  6. March 22, 2009 at 8:55 am | #6

    “Ray Rizaldy likes this story”

    *gaya fesbuk. hahaha
    daku juga waktu kecil pernah nanya gitu sama orang2. tapi dicuekin, kayaknya pada takut salah orang2 tua itu. hehe

  7. April 7, 2009 at 7:40 am | #7

    There’s no such a small or big response Sis, agree with your last opinion, superb.

    Children with their own worldview, and that’s not “children” as a small adult personality, children as a little man, with their own vision for their own life, they will build their own story ( history or herstory), right ?

    Sorry to say that there are exist many “imagination killer” surround us, I called them “dementor”. The world movement supported by idea, and idea come from inspiration, inspiration made from imagination. There’s something more powerfull than knowledge, that’s imagination.

    Nice writing Sis, may I keep it in my personal blog ? ( Link)

    Thanks and regards

    GAL

  8. April 7, 2009 at 12:32 pm | #8

    @Petra: wow suka becanda gt pet, blog kamu juga penuh bhs. inggris nya :P
    yup butterfly effect, wondering how caterpillar effect looks like :D

    @ray: karena itulah orang tua harus pintar. sy suka salut ama orang2 yg kuliah bukan hanya u kerja, tapi juga u mendidik anak2nya :P . and one more thing u should know, educate children isn’t only mom’s job, it’s also father’s occupation :D

    @maximillian: wow, thanks for the superb comment.
    “herstory” :) haha nice try
    well i couldn’t agree more. it’s so sad to see or hear all the things that dementors said or done.
    do u thing is it one of many reasons why indonesia lacks of potential human resource?
    sure u may, thanks

  9. April 8, 2009 at 10:07 am | #9

    The key is education Ma’am.

    That’s my personal dream, everybody’s right to get the “knowledge” and ” know how” for their good life. They must know their own life path, and plan it. Right ?

    So sad when I tried to remember the face of people surround me, I came from a small village, it’s just luck for me to gain better education than them, although some of them are smarter than me. Laskar Pelangi remind me the importance and urgency of education, “humanizing the human”.

    We have the right for our own life, so do people surround us. We call them as brother- sister, that’s I call it as ‘ukhuwah”.

    ^_^ Keep cool Sis.

    an unusual paradigm of somewhat called ukhuwah… nice, ukhuwah for humanizing human…

  10. April 10, 2009 at 11:43 pm | #10

    hayo teteh… anak kecilnya itu teteh kan… ngaku aja deh… :D

  11. April 22, 2009 at 3:29 pm | #11

    iya, pasti ini curcol (curhat colongan) ;) )

  12. June 17, 2009 at 12:27 am | #12

    ho..
    semoga anaknya Teh Anis bisa dapet jawaban yg lebih memuaskan dari ibunya

    *apacoba*

  13. July 13, 2009 at 12:43 am | #13

    I agree. We should respond wisely when facing the children. I think the little girl should not be laughed at. Instead, she shoud be directed to find the answer by herself. Let her have curiosity and find her own “A-ha”.

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